Can We Talk? by Roberta Chinsky Matuson Summary
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"Can We Talk?" unveils seven essential principles for navigating workplace's toughest conversations. Independent Press Award winner that transforms how leaders communicate. Marshall Goldsmith calls it "solid insights and practical advice" - because the courage to speak up might just save your career.
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When "Can We Talk" Becomes an Opportunity, Not a Threat
Those three words-"Can we talk?"-can instantly trigger anxiety in even the most seasoned professionals. For many, they signal the beginning of an uncomfortable confrontation rather than a productive dialogue. Yet difficult conversations remain unavoidable in workplaces worldwide, with a staggering 70 percent of employees actively avoiding them with bosses, colleagues, and direct reports. This avoidance is costly-each conversation failure costs organizations approximately $7,500 and more than seven workdays of productivity, leading to declining engagement, eroding trust, and skyrocketing workplace stress. What if these dreaded interactions could become opportunities for growth instead of sources of anxiety? The key lies in mastering seven core principles: Confidence, Clarity, Compassion, Curiosity, Compromise, Credibility, and Courage. Together, they create a framework for transforming difficult conversations into productive exchanges that strengthen relationships rather than damage them. Whether you're delivering tough feedback, negotiating for resources, or addressing conflict, these principles offer a roadmap for conversations that produce results while preserving-and often enhancing-workplace relationships.
Building Self-Trust and Clarity: The Foundation of Effective Conversations
Compassion and Curiosity: The Heart of Connection
Compromise and Credibility: Building Trust Through Actions
Courage: Taking the Leap When It Matters Most
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"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
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"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
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