Dear Lover by David Deida Summary
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In "Dear Lover," David Deida unveils the art of spiritual intimacy beyond conventional relationship advice. This poetic guide has influenced countless seekers of deeper connection since 2004. What if the key to love's deepest bliss lies not in technique, but in spiritual surrender?
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When Love Becomes Your Only Choice
What would happen if you stopped protecting your heart? Not recklessly, but consciously-choosing vulnerability over safety, depth over comfort. Most of us spend our lives building elaborate fortresses around our most tender places, convinced we're being wise. We call it "boundaries" or "self-care," but often it's just fear wearing a respectable disguise. The feminine heart knows something our modern minds have forgotten: that opening is not weakness but the most courageous spiritual practice available. Your deepest yearning isn't to be protected-it's to be utterly claimed by love so powerful it dissolves every wall you've ever built.
The Lie We've Been Sold About Love
The Sacred Practice of Two Bodies Opening as One
The Fear That Shapes Your Choices
Why Men Hold Back and What Invites Them Forward
The Practice of Staying Open Through Everything
The Choice That Defines Your Life
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