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Games People Play
Eric Berne
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Psychology
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Discover why "Games People Play" revolutionized psychology, selling 5 million copies since 1964. Kurt Vonnegut praised this guide to hidden social dynamics that exposed why your daily interactions follow predictable scripts - and how to break free.

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Why Your Arguments Follow the Same Script Every Time

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Have you noticed how certain conversations feel eerily familiar, like you've had them a thousand times before? The colleague who asks for advice then shoots down every suggestion. The partner whose complaints always spiral into the same explosive fight. These aren't random occurrences-they're psychological "games" we unconsciously play. Eric Berne's revolutionary 1964 book revealed these hidden patterns, initially self-published after multiple rejections, only to become an international sensation selling over five million copies. What makes this work so powerful isn't just its insights into human behavior, but its ability to show us the invisible scripts controlling our daily interactions-and how we might rewrite them.

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The Currency of Human Connection

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The Three Voices Inside Your Head

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The Anatomy of Psychological Games

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Life Scripts: The Stories We Can't Stop Living

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The Theater of Everyday Interaction

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Reclaiming Your Autonomy

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