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How to Meet Your Self
Nicole LePera
4.13 (1518 Reviews)
Self-growth
Psychology
Mindfulness
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Dr. Nicole LePera's revolutionary workbook unlocks self-discovery through practical exercises that awaken consciousness and break conditioned patterns. As a follow-up to her #1 NYT bestseller, this holistic guide has transformed millions from survival mode to authentic living. Ready to finally meet yourself?

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The Invisible Prison We Build From Childhood

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What if the person you think you are isn't really you at all? What if every "automatic" reaction, every familiar pattern, every choice that feels like second nature is actually someone else's script running in your mind? This isn't some abstract philosophical puzzle-it's the daily reality for most of us. We're living on autopilot, guided by invisible programming installed decades ago, often before we could even speak. The collection of beliefs, behaviors, and coping mechanisms we absorbed as children becomes our "habit self"-a biological imprint etched into our nervous system that dictates how we respond to everything from criticism at work to intimacy in relationships. A child with an emotionally volatile parent learns to become hypervigilant, constantly scanning others' moods like a radar system. Another with distant caregivers learns to bury their needs so deep they forget they exist. These adaptations helped us survive childhood, but they're now running our adult lives without permission. The revolutionary insight here isn't just recognizing these patterns-it's understanding that consciousness itself is the key to freedom. We're not the voice chattering in our heads; we're the awareness observing those thoughts. This distinction changes everything.

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Your Body Remembers What Your Mind Forgets

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The Stories That Shape Your Reality

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The Language Your Body Speaks

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Breaking the Biochemical Loop

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Listening to the Voice Beneath the Noise

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Living From Your Center

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