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How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk
Adele Faber
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Transform your parenting with the 3-million-copy bestseller that made The New York Times' Lydia Kiesling "a better parent." What communication secret works equally well with kids and CEOs? This revolutionary guide's techniques have changed family dynamics worldwide for 40+ years.

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The Art of Connecting With Your Child's Heart

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Imagine a world where your requests aren't met with eye rolls or defiance, where meltdowns are rare, and where your child actually talks to you about their day without prompting. This isn't parenting fantasy - it's what happens when we transform how we communicate with our children. The revolutionary approach in "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen" challenges the traditional power dynamic between parents and children, offering practical tools that respect children's dignity while maintaining necessary boundaries. At its core is a profound truth: the way we speak to our children becomes their inner voice, shaping how they'll talk to themselves - and others - for a lifetime.

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Acknowledging Feelings and Inviting Cooperation

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Fostering Independence and Capability

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