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Raising Your Spirited Child
Mary Sheedy Kurcinka
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Transform parenting chaos into harmony with this bestselling guide for raising intense, persistent children. Named among top twenty parenting books, it's helped millions discover their child's strengths. Laura Markham calls it "reassuring" - the secret weapon exhausted parents never knew they needed.

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Taming the Super Ball: Understanding Your Spirited Child

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Have you ever watched a child who seems to experience life at maximum volume? While other kids bounce three feet off the ground, these children hit the ceiling-literally and figuratively. They're the ones who feel everything more deeply, fight transitions more fiercely, and love more passionately than their peers. Mary Sheedy Kurcinka calls these children "spirited"-a transformative label that recognizes their intensity as a potential strength rather than a flaw. These children aren't being difficult on purpose; they're wired differently. Their temperamental traits-intensity, persistence, sensitivity, perceptiveness, and adaptability-create both challenges and remarkable potential. Understanding this biological blueprint is the first step toward transforming daily battles into opportunities for growth and connection. When you recognize that your child isn't giving you a hard time but having a hard time, everything changes.

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The Power of Positive Labels: Words That Transform

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The Temperamental Blueprint: Born This Way

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Energy Sources: Understanding Introverts and Extroverts

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Emotional Regulation: Finding the Green Zone

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Beyond Tantrums: Managing Meltdowns

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The Rose in Your Garden: Embracing Your Spirited Child

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