Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan & Cacilda Jethá Summary
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Sex at Dawn shatters myths about human monogamy, arguing we evolved for sexual freedom. Endorsed by sex columnist Dan Savage, this bestseller sparked fierce debates about relationships, challenging traditional narratives with evidence from anthropology. What if everything you believe about fidelity is wrong?
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Rethinking Everything You Thought You Knew About Sex
Imagine discovering that everything you believed about human sexuality-all those "natural" feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and the ideal of lifelong monogamy-might actually be cultural constructs rather than biological imperatives. This is the revolutionary premise of Sex at Dawn, which challenges our fundamental assumptions about human nature. The evidence is compelling: despite our cultural obsession with sexual fidelity, approximately 50% of marriages end in divorce, and sexual scandals regularly topple the most vocal defenders of "traditional values." Could it be that the widespread unhappiness in modern relationships stems not from moral failings but from fighting against our own evolutionary design? What if humans didn't evolve for sexual monogamy at all, but rather for something much more communal and fluid?
Our Bodies Tell a Different Story Than Our Culture
The Bonobo Connection We've Ignored
The Forager Paradise We've Forgotten
Female Sexuality: The War We've Waged
The Masculine Dilemma: Testosterone and Monotony
Finding New Paths Forward
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