The Courage to be Happy by Ichiro Kishimi Summary
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The sequel to a million-copy bestseller, "The Courage to Be Happy" presents Adlerian psychology through captivating Socratic dialogue. Silicon Valley titan Marc Andreessen calls it "compelling from front to back" - a philosophical conversation that transforms your mental framework like "Marie Kondo, but for your brain."
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The Dance Between Freedom and Belonging
Imagine standing at a crossroads, feeling the weight of your past holding you back while yearning for a different future. This tension-between who we've been and who we might become-lies at the heart of Adlerian psychology. Unlike Freud, who believed we're prisoners of our past traumas, Alfred Adler proposed something revolutionary: happiness isn't something that happens to us-it's something we choose with courage. The dialogue between a wise philosopher and a skeptical youth reveals this fundamental truth. We aren't determined by our histories. The past doesn't exist in any objective sense-it's constantly rewritten based on our current needs and goals. When we believe "I can't change because of my childhood," we're actually selecting memories that justify our current worldview. A man who initially remembered only being bitten by a dog later recalled being helped by a stranger once his perspective shifted from "the world is dangerous" to "the world is safe." This isn't just philosophical wordplay-it's profoundly liberating. Your "now" decides your past, not the other way around. Yet most of us resist this freedom because true change requires a kind of death-giving up our current identity completely. Instead, we focus on two sides of a triangular column: "That bad person" (blaming others) and "Poor me" (self-pity). But the third side-"What should I do from now on?"-is the only question that leads to real transformation.
The Courage to See Others As They Are
The Hidden Goals Behind Problem Behavior
Building Self-Reliance Through Meaningful Choice
The Biological Roots of Community
The Distinction Between Trust and Confidence
Love as Decision, Not Destiny
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"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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