The Dinner by Herman Koch Summary
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A dinner party becomes a moral battlefield in Koch's polarizing thriller that sparked two film adaptations. Inspired by real tragedy, this Dutch bestseller divides readers with its uncomfortable question: How far would you go to protect your child from consequences?
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A Dinner That Exposes the Darkness Within
What would you do if your child committed an unspeakable crime? This question sits at the center of "The Dinner," a meal that begins with polite conversation and expensive wine but gradually reveals the moral rot beneath its civilized veneer. Two couples-Paul and Claire, Serge and Babette-meet at an exclusive restaurant to discuss their teenage sons. Serge, a prominent politician poised to become the Netherlands' next prime minister, has secured a table that normally requires months of reservation. Paul, our narrator, seethes with resentment toward his famous brother, despising everything from the restaurant's pretentiousness to Serge's affected wine-tasting ritual. But beneath this ordinary family tension lies something far more sinister. As each elaborate course arrives-from aperitifs to digestifs-layers of deception are peeled away, revealing how quickly moral boundaries dissolve when family loyalty is tested. This isn't just dinner; it's a battlefield where civilization itself is on the menu.
The Crime That Binds Them
Pretension as the Perfect Cover
The Parents' Moral Failure
Paul's Disturbing Past
The Inheritance of Violence
The Chilling Conclusion
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