The Evolution of Desire by David M. Buss Summary
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Uncover the hidden psychology of attraction in David Buss's landmark study spanning 10,000+ participants across 37 cultures. Why do women prefer wealthy men even when financially independent? Discover universal mating strategies that explain everything from jealousy to mate poaching.
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Why We Want What We Want in Love
Ever notice how your friend who just got promoted suddenly becomes more attractive to potential partners? Or why breakups hurt so viscerally, as if your entire world is collapsing? These aren't random quirks of human nature-they're the echoes of ancient survival mechanisms still running beneath our modern romantic lives. For millions of years, choosing the right partner meant the difference between children who thrived and genetic oblivion. Our brains evolved exquisitely sensitive detection systems for qualities that predicted reproductive success, and those systems still shape every swipe, every first date, every moment of attraction we experience today. The patterns are so consistent across cultures that a woman in Tokyo and a man in Brazil will share more similarities in what they find attractive than either might expect. Understanding these hidden forces doesn't diminish the magic of love-it reveals why that magic feels so powerful in the first place.
The Female Calculus and Male Imperative: Different Biological Realities
The Paradox of Casual Sex and Strategic Mating
The Art of Attraction: Signaling What Others Want
Guarding What We've Won: The Psychology of Jealousy and Mate Retention
When the Center Cannot Hold: Understanding Relationship Dissolution
Transcending Our Evolutionary Past
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