The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis Summary
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C.S. Lewis dissects love into four ancient forms - affection, friendship, romance, and charity - in this theological masterpiece that influenced Timothy Keller and John Piper. What happens when human love isn't anchored in divine love? The answer might transform your relationships forever.
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When Love Becomes Both Heaven and Hell
Have you ever noticed how the same love that brings us deepest joy can also deliver our greatest pain? Consider the parent who would die for their child, yet finds themselves suffocating that child with anxious control. Or the passionate lover whose devotion slowly curdles into possessive jealousy. C.S. Lewis, writing in 1960 after experiencing both the ecstasy of late-life marriage and the agony of losing his wife to cancer, understood this paradox intimately. His book "The Four Loves" emerged from this crucible of experience, offering insights that feel startlingly relevant in our age of both digital connection and profound loneliness. What Lewis discovered might surprise you: our capacity to love deeply is inseparable from our capacity to suffer deeply, and the very loves we think will save us can become the demons that destroy us-unless we understand their proper place in the architecture of human existence.
The Dangerous Confusion Between Gift and Giver
The Humble Power of Everyday Affection
Friendship's Forgotten Revolution
When Passion Mistakes Itself for God
The Love That Transforms All Others
The Choice Between Safety and Transformation
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