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The Person You Mean to Be
Dolly Chugh
4.27 (2763 Reviews)
Psychology
Self-growth
Society
Relationship
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Discover how good intentions aren't enough in "The Person You Mean to Be." Featured in Google exec Laszlo Bock's toolkit and ranked #20 in Business Ethics, Dolly Chugh's TED sensation reveals the uncomfortable truth: fighting bias requires more than just meaning well.

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The Gap Between Who We Are and Who We Want to Be

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Have you ever caught yourself doing something that contradicts your deepest values? Maybe you've claimed to support diversity while realizing your social circle looks remarkably homogeneous. Or perhaps you've advocated for equality while unconsciously making assumptions based on someone's appearance. This uncomfortable space between our intentions and actions isn't a sign of hypocrisy-it's the human condition. Most of us genuinely believe we're good people, yet we occasionally behave in ways that betray those beliefs. Understanding this gap, and more importantly, learning to close it, forms the heart of meaningful personal growth. The question isn't whether this disconnect exists-it's what we choose to do about it.

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The Trap of Being "Good"

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The Power of Not Knowing

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What We Don't See Shapes Everything

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The Invisible Advantages We Carry

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Using Your Voice When It Counts Most

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Becoming the Person You Mean to Be

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