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The Sorrows of Love
The School of Life
3.9 (771 Reviews)
Relationship
Self-growth
Philosophy
Psychology
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"The Sorrows of Love" challenges our romantic fantasies with refreshing realism. This concise guide from The School of Life asks: Why does love hurt so much? Embraced by the bookstagram community, it offers consolation by normalizing relationship struggles we all silently endure.

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Why Love Hurts More Than We Ever Expected

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Have you ever wondered why the person you love most can also make you feel the loneliest? Why the relationship that was supposed to complete you sometimes feels like your greatest burden? We've been sold a dangerous myth: that true love should feel effortless, that the "right person" will make everything easy. But what if the very nature of love guarantees a certain amount of suffering-not because we're doing it wrong, but because we're human? This isn't pessimism; it's liberation. When we stop expecting relationships to be perpetually blissful, we can finally build something real.

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The Structural Impossibility of Perfect Love

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The Myth of the Right Choice

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The Dangerous Fantasy of Complete Understanding

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The Unglamorous Truth About Domestic Life

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The Impossible Dream of Passion and Partnership

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Love as a Skill Worth Learning

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