Why We Can’t Sleep by Ada Calhoun Summary
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"Why We Can't Sleep" exposes the hidden midlife crisis plaguing Gen X women, where one in four rely on antidepressants. Actress Busy Philipps champions this validating exploration of financial anxiety, emotional exhaustion, and resilience beneath society's crushing expectations. What's keeping you awake tonight?
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When the Dream Became a Nightmare
What if everything you were promised about your future turned out to be a lie? For millions of American women born between 1965 and 1980, this isn't a hypothetical question-it's their daily reality. They're successful on paper, yet they're drowning. One woman maintains an impressive LinkedIn profile while barely making rent. Another spends afternoons alone in movie theaters, sobbing for reasons she can't explain. A third looks at her picture-perfect family and feels inexplicable rage. These aren't isolated cases of personal failure. They're symptoms of a generation-wide crisis that's been hiding in plain sight. Generation X women were raised on a steady diet of "girl power" and promises that they could have it all-career, family, financial security, personal fulfillment. Now, at midlife, they're discovering that "having it all" actually means doing it all, with no support and impossible standards. They appear high-functioning, creating PowerPoints and coordinating carpool schedules, while privately lying awake at 3 a.m., wondering where everything went wrong. This isn't just stress or normal midlife adjustment. It's the sound of a social experiment failing, and it's time we listened.
America's Forgotten Middle Child
Raised on Benign Neglect and National Anxiety
Stretched on the Rack of Modern Caregiving
The Illusion of Leaning In
The Financial Squeeze Nobody Saw Coming
Rewriting the Story We Tell Ourselves
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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
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"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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