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Am I Making Myself Clear?
Terry Felber
4.16 (483 Reviews)
Communication skill
Relationship
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Self-growth
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Unlock the secrets of world-class communicators with Terry Felber's essential guide. Praised for transforming social interactions and building confidence, this accessible handbook reveals why your posture speaks louder than words. Ever wondered why some people command attention effortlessly? The answer might surprise you.

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When Your Words Stop Working-And What Actually Matters

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Have you noticed how often you finish a conversation feeling completely misunderstood? You explained yourself clearly-or so you thought-yet the other person walked away with an entirely different message. This disconnect isn't just frustrating; it's costing us relationships, opportunities, and peace of mind. Here's the surprising truth: only 8% of your message comes through the actual words you speak. The remaining 92% flows through channels most of us never consciously control-our faces, our posture, the tone we use, even the space between us and our listener. What if mastering these hidden dimensions could transform not just how you communicate, but how you connect with everyone around you? Your body speaks volumes before you utter a single word. Think about the last time someone told you "I'm fine" while their arms were crossed, jaw clenched, and eyes avoiding yours. You didn't believe them, did you? That's because your brain instinctively reads the 92% of communication that happens beyond words. Your face alone employs dozens of muscles that broadcast your inner state-a genuine smile requires just 26 muscles while frowning demands 62, yet somehow we often choose the harder path. Holiday Inn understood this so deeply that when hiring 500 employees for a new facility, they rejected anyone who smiled fewer than four times during their interview. They weren't being superficial; they recognized that warmth and authenticity can't be faked through facial expressions alone. Eye contact operates as a direct channel to trust and connection. When you look someone in the eyes, you're saying "you matter to me right now." When you glance away repeatedly, you're broadcasting discomfort, distraction, or disinterest-even if that's not what you intend. The path to being truly heard begins not with speaking louder, but with understanding the complete language you're already speaking.

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The Body Language That Defines You

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The Strategic Power of Presence and Preparation

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The Rare Gift of Your Undivided Attention

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Speaking With Precision and Building Connection

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The Currency of Encouragement and Building Others Up

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Your Words, Your World, Your Legacy

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