Facing Codependence by Pia Mellody Summary
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Pia Mellody's groundbreaking guide unmasks codependency's hidden grip on relationships. Pioneering trauma-informed therapy at The Meadows, her work transformed addiction treatment nationwide. John Bradshaw praised: "What childhood wounds are silently controlling your life? Discover the boundaries that set you free."
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Introduction: The Hidden Epidemic
Codependence is a complex and often misunderstood condition that affects millions of people worldwide. As someone who has spent decades studying and treating codependence, I've come to recognize it as a hidden epidemic that silently erodes relationships, self-esteem, and overall well-being. In this book, we'll embark on a journey to uncover the roots of codependence, identify its symptoms, and explore paths to recovery. My own experience with codependence began long before I understood what it was. Like many others, I grew up in a family where dysfunctional patterns were the norm, shaping my understanding of relationships and self-worth in ways I wouldn't fully grasp until much later in life. It wasn't until I faced my own struggles and began working with others that I realized the pervasiveness of codependence and its profound impact on our lives.
Part 1: Recognizing the Signs
Part 2: The Roots of Codependence
Part 3: The Five Core Symptoms in Detail
Part 4: The Impact of Codependence
Part 5: The Path to Recovery
Conclusion: Embracing a New Way of Living
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