Helping by Edgar H. Schein Summary
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In "Helping," Edgar Schein revolutionizes how we offer and receive assistance. Named one of 2009's best leadership books, it reveals why helping often fails. Warren Bennis called it "uncommonly wise" - a must-read that transforms everyday interactions through humble inquiry and trust-building.
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When Helping Hurts More Than It Heals
A senior executive once hired a consultant to fix a "problem department." After weeks of interviews, the consultant discovered something uncomfortable: the real problem wasn't the department at all-it was the toxic relationship between that department head and the CEO himself. The very person who'd hired the consultant to help was unknowingly sabotaging his own team. This scenario plays out constantly in our lives, revealing a troubling truth: most of us are terrible at helping, despite our best intentions. We rush in with solutions before understanding problems. We offer advice that makes us feel wise but leaves others feeling diminished. We mistake our need to feel helpful for actual helpfulness. What looks like generosity often becomes a subtle form of control, and what feels like support can reinforce dependence.
The Invisible Architecture of Every Helping Exchange
Why Your Best Intentions Keep Backfiring
The Three Faces of Help
The Art of Not Knowing
When Help Becomes Harm
Reclaiming the Helping Relationship
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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
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"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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