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How to Be Your Own Therapist
Owen O'Kane
3.83 (833 Reviews)
Psychology
Self-growth
Mindfulness
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Former NHS mental health lead Owen O'Kane offers life-changing therapeutic techniques in this bestseller that teaches you to become your own healer. His "5-4-3-2-1" grounding trick and daily mental check-ins have transformed countless lives. Why pay for therapy when this book exists?

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Becoming Your Own Emotional Navigator

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Imagine having a therapist available 24/7, someone who understands your deepest fears and greatest hopes, who knows your history intimately and can guide you through life's challenges with wisdom and compassion. That therapist already exists - it's you. In "How to Be Your Own Therapist," Owen O'Kane draws from his experience as both a therapy client and a clinical psychotherapist to demystify the therapeutic process. Mental health services remain inaccessible to many, but O'Kane believes we all possess the capacity to heal ourselves. This isn't about dismissing professional help when needed, but rather empowering yourself with the same tools therapists use to help clients navigate their inner worlds. The journey begins with understanding that therapy isn't mysterious or magical - it's a scientifically-proven process that improves mental wellness by helping us understand how our responses to experiences, rather than the experiences themselves, create psychological impact.

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Understanding Your Psychological Architecture

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Mapping Your Life Story and Patterns

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Therapeutic Tools for Transformation

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Daily Mental Wellness Practices

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Stories of Transformation

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Embracing Your Therapeutic Journey

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