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The Conscious Parent
Shefali Tsabary
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Psychology
Self-growth
Mindfulness
Relationship
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Revolutionize your parenting by healing yourself first. Endorsed by Oprah as "the best child expert," Dr. Tsabary's groundbreaking blend of Western psychology and Eastern philosophy has transformed how celebrities like Pnk and Eva Mendes raise children. Ready to break generational patterns?

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When Your Child Becomes Your Teacher

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Have you ever watched your toddler melt down in a grocery store and felt your chest tighten, your face flush, your mind race with what everyone must be thinking? That moment-right there-is where the real work of parenting begins. Not in the discipline strategy you choose or the consequence you deliver, but in recognizing that your child's tantrum has just revealed something profound about you. This is the revolutionary premise that has transformed millions of families: parenting isn't about molding children into who we want them to be. It's about allowing them to reveal who we need to become. Most of us approach parenting as a top-down enterprise. We're bigger, older, wiser-surely that means we're supposed to shape these small humans into successful adults. But what if we've had it backwards all along? What if children don't come to us as blank slates waiting for our wisdom, but as whole beings with their own signature essence, arriving specifically to crack open our false selves and invite us toward authenticity? Think about the last time your child's behavior triggered an outsized reaction in you. Maybe your daughter refused to practice piano after you've invested thousands in lessons. Maybe your son chose art over athletics, disappointing dreams you didn't even realize you were carrying. That surge of emotion-the frustration, the shame, the fear-doesn't originate with your child's choices. It comes from unresolved wounds in your own past.

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The Mirror Your Child Holds Up and the Damage of Conditional Love

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The Ego's Desperate Grip on Parenting

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Becoming Nonreactive: The Practice of Presence

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Developmental Stages as Spiritual Invitations

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The Revolution of Ordinary Moments

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Coming Home to Yourself Through Your Child

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