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The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober
Catherine Gray
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Catherine Gray's Sunday Times bestseller shatters alcohol myths with raw honesty and practical wisdom. Beyond a recovery memoir, this life-changing guide sparked a wellness revolution by reframing sobriety not as deprivation, but as an unexpected gateway to rediscovering life's authentic joys.

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What if everything you believed about happiness was built on a lie? Catherine Gray spent two decades chasing joy at the bottom of wine bottles, convinced alcohol was the golden ticket to confidence, connection, and fun. By her mid-twenties, she'd landed her dream media job in London, partied with celebrities in underground Soho clubs, and collected stories everyone envied. Yet beneath the glamorous surface lurked a terrifying truth: she was dying, one drink at a time. Her hands trembled so violently she couldn't sign her name. She'd arrive at restaurants an hour early just to get the "shake-stopper" inside her. Morning drinking became routine, calling in sick became strategic. The woman who seemed to have it all was actually drowning-and alcohol, the thing she thought was saving her, was holding her head underwater.

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Why Your Brain Becomes a Hostage

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The Brutal Beauty of Early Sobriety

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From Party Girl to Day Fun Girl

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Unplugging from the Alcohol Matrix

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A Life Beyond Your Wildest Dreams

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