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The New Rules Of Attachment by Dr. Judy Ho Summary

The New Rules Of Attachment
Dr. Judy Ho
4.35 (143 Reviews)
Psychology
Self Help
Relationship
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Overview of The New Rules Of Attachment

Dr. Judy Ho revolutionizes attachment theory beyond romance, offering 25+ exercises to heal relationships across all life domains. Jessica Baum calls it "a compass for your personal revolution." Can reparenting your inner child truly secure your entire life vision?

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Rewiring Your Heart: The Science of Attachment

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Ever wonder why you keep falling into the same relationship patterns? Dr. Judy Ho's groundbreaking work reveals that these aren't just personality quirks but deeply ingrained attachment styles formed in our earliest years. Attachment theory explains how our childhood experiences with caregivers create blueprints for all future relationships. These patterns don't just affect romantic partnerships-they influence friendships, work relationships, and even how we pursue goals. The revolutionary insight? These patterns can change through conscious effort and corrective experiences. Imagine discovering that the relationship difficulties you've faced your entire life aren't character flaws but adaptations that once helped you survive. This knowledge isn't just intellectually fascinating-it's emotionally liberating.

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The Four Attachment Styles Decoded

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How Your Past Shapes Your Present Self-Image

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Breaking Free From Avoidant Patterns

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Calming the Anxious Heart

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Finding Stability After Trauma

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